PEOPLE THOUGHT THE WAY I LOVED MY BOYFRIEND WAS FUCKED UP...But was it?

PEOPLE THOUGHT THE WAY I LOVED MY BOYFRIEND WAS FUCKED UP...But was it?
I met this guy
and every one thought we treated each other like shit
but a funny thing happened
the more we 'treated each other like shit'
the happier we got
Say what?!! you ask
I am saying that the way society has taught you to Love,
well perhaps THAT is the thing that is fucked up!
You see,
I realised i don't express my love in a 'traditional' way
the way society, rom coms, tv etc shows its supposed to be.
So my love, well it looks crazy and insane to the outside world
My love comes from my truth and honesty
I can see straight through to my partners' issues and dysfunctional ways of relating, and I either call them out,
or I refuse to engage with them.
Because if I didn't
I'd be allowing and enabling that dysfunction to continue
and i love my partners too much to let that happen.
So, what it looked like on the outside,
was me continuing to ditch him and fuck up our plans
when what I was really doing, was disengaging with any clingy, needy codependent behaviour
and yes he'd crack the shits
and whine about the lack of stability
but then,
he'd feel better, and love me deeper
for allowing and affording him to opportunity to be more self sufficient.
Society teaches us codependent LOVE
to sacrifice your needs to help others
it is extremely unhealthy way to relate.
If you are interested in learning more about how to relate to love in a way that heals both you and your partner,
that chucks out rules and obligations
and is about living your own truth
and allowing your partner to live his
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